6 Major Rules Of A Successful Relationship With Your Partner
Rules of Love
Everything around the world lies on some laws and rules which we are ought to follow. All standardized organizations, every subtle sport and each thing that requires perfection and success is based on rules and so does the relationship.
The relationship in any shape is benign, it is easy to build but it's difficult to sustain. Every relationship relies on the formula of give and take except your mother. She does not seek any return but just the happiness of her child. Well the case is not the same when talking about the relationship between you and your partner. It demands genuine efforts from both the sides.
Just like every other thing around us has ground rules so does the relationships require some major rules to become successful and healthy.
GIVE RESPECT, TAKE RESPECT
You must have heard of this from your adults, give respect and take respect. There is nothing in life anyone would do if they are getting disrespect. So the relationship requires the same thing. Do not disrespect your partner as this would lead to separation or some one of you might have to compromise to live together.
COMMUNICATION-THE HUMAN CONNECTION
All relationships have ups and downs but it can be resolved if the communication is strong. Displeasure becomes a grudge if it stays unresolved. So it is better for you to communicate rather than piling up in your heart. Communicate to the other person in the way you would want him to communicate to you, if your positions were reversed.
LOYALTY IS THE BEST POLICY
One of the major elements of a close romantic relationship is loyalty, which you feel and show to your partner. Being loyal to your partner does not require much effort but when it's lost, it takes you a million years to fulfill. When you are loyal with your companion it genuinely generates the positive vibes within you both.
Jean-Paul Sartre said, “Commitment is an act, not a word.” it is a foundation, a building of any relationship. The long term relationship you see, they are based on those commitments and promises they must have made to each other years ago. Have you ever seen an aged couple cuddling and having the same romance in their hearts, having the same respect, carrying the same love in their eyes? This is how a commitment looks like.
AFTER GOD, WE ARE ALL EQUAL
Demanding of equality is a serious topic these days, but keeping in mind that the formula of “Mera Jism Meri Marzi” and “Apna Khana Khud Garam Karlo” does not lie everywhere. Here we are not talking about the equality of work a man and a woman do in their daily routine, but we are catering to some major issues here such as equal rights to speak and share stuff you are going through. It is about making decisions together, it is about both having the right to stand upfront for your concerns and allowing the same to the next person.
INTIMACY AND ROMANCE
I wonder why we are not bold and straight forward enough to talk about the actual cause. Intimacy is no doubt the best expression your partner can have to make you feel worthy.
There is no shame to admit that slight touch, little cuddling can do miracles. According to psychology, a peck kiss on the forehead while leaving for work releases the hormones of happiness named testosterone in the brain. Which let your partner understand their worth and would make them feel happy internally.